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In Matthew 10:34-42, Jesus calls us to take up the cross. This passage goes against the grain of most Christian mindsets, just as it did when Jesus first gave it. Yet, it is essential for us to understand who we are in Christ and allow His empowerment to come into our relationships. What does this mean? How does this affect my relationship with God, my relationship with self and with others?
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Are you secure in your life? If so where is your trust placed?
Here is a helpful talk curriculum to teach youth to focus on Christ with lots of examples and Scripture.